Horse Husband and Ox Wife
In this union there is hardly any prospect of happiness. He is too multi-faceted, high-brow and extroverted for the faithful Ox. He is always too upbeat with excitement while she is too serious to share this. He finds her faithful but lacking demonstration and adamant. She feels insecure in his company because of his easy-going attitude and unpredictable moods. He thinks she completely lacks a sense of humour and is difficult to work or spend his leisure time with. She wants him to be more organised and to shoulder more responsibility. These two do not have too much in common.
Ox Husband and Horse Wife
This is not at all a union that augurs harmony. She is without a care in the world and candid while he is hard working and stable. He wishes for a neat and tidy, stable home while she is too unrestrained to be able to meet this demand. She needs lots of space which he cannot understand, least of all why she doesn’t pay enough attention to him.