Okay, maybe you did not have a great Valentine's Day this time! Or probably, your man preferred the idiot box, all hot this time, thanks to Cricket World cup frenzy, on the V-Day. Or, you are feeling heart-broken, over a relationship that was not meant to be, and the one which you recently bid goodbye to. Whatever it was or is, it's best to stay strong, and move on. But then, everyone has different ways of dealing with a heart-break...|
Throwing tantrums, getting angry, shouting and shrieking, crying into the pillow all through the night or blaming the world for your pain – what all emotional women do when heart-broken over lost love. Here we bring you insights into how. you, as women, are likely to handle your heart-break, basis your Zodiac Sign!
The fiery Aries women are strong – but usually on surface. Guileless or quick to trust others, the Ram women fall in love – fast and hard. And, when this they go through an emotional ride, expect a plenty of crying, wailing and sobbing. These women will be filled with a feeling of suffering, which may be followed by anger and rage too. However, after some time, they will be quick to forget and move on - after all "tomorrow is a new day" for most Aries.
The brooding Bull lady may go very quiet and withdrawn initially when she gets a no in love. However, this may soon give way to depression, quiet self-admonishing and even a deep analysis of what went wrong. Good thing is that even though they may take time, the headstrong Taurus ladies would tumble out of this broken heart mode eventually - stronger. They will begin by reinstating the lost stability, post which, they shall be all composed – even if the hurt remains.
Gemini women may be strong, but when it comes to handling a broken heart, they really do not find it easy. It may be, in fact, quite difficult for them to cope with their emotions – especially till the time a break-up is recent. Happily, Gemini women are quick to recover, and would rarely spend a lot of time nursing their hurt selves. Intelligent and quick witted, these women are also smart enough to learn their lessons from their set-backs. Before an ex can even think about getting back, most of them would have moved on to another love interest.
The emotional and sensitive Crab has a tendency to cling to the past. Naturally, the Cancer women take a lot of time getting back to normal, once they suffer a heart-break. For them, either it is never-ending love or never loving again, at least for quite a while. Their aching and lamenting, thus, may last longer than for the women of most other Signs. On surface, many Cancer women, however, would be very composed, even when hurting inside – and would complete all their practical tasks to perfection. But, inside would be a different story! Casual fling are seldom their choice - love is taken very seriously in the Cancer women's world.
The women of this Sign don't forget or forgive any slights quickly or easily. And, when it comes to a broken relationship – the loss is monumental for the Leo woman – of dignity, of her superiority and her pride. Break the heart of a Leo women, and be ready to be shunned for life! All your pleas may fall on deaf ears. In fact, the Lioness will not let her ex-lover even feel that she is hurting. She will start looking for a better partner, and may even attempt PDA and demonstrative gestures to make an ex jealous.
Virgo women are nothing if not logical and intelligent. Logic rules their brain! After analysing the relationship (if things are not working or something is amiss) they may themselves decide to bid adieu, even if it may take them ages to heal their broken heart. Most of these rational Virgo women will amicably end a relationship, especially if there ever was a friendship they valued. They may avoid getting back to the same places or meeting people that would remind them of their relationship gone sour. However, on face, they would rarely make a show of a relationship gone wrong, and even when they (accidentally) bump into their ex, they would almost always ensure plastering a smile.
Ever the charming diplomat, the Libra woman rarely gives away what's going inside her heart – even after a heart-break – especially to those not close to her. The tell-tale effects of a broken heart and pain may start to show physically on her, but she would prefer moping silently, rather than making a hue and cry about it all, until she is pushed to limits. And, when that happens, the sight isn't pretty at all. Once the deed is done – the relationship over for good – the Libra women don't believe in spending too much time grieving. Wiping the slate clean, they move on by getting involved in their hobbies, careers, travels or even new relationships.
Scorpios are intense, passionate beings, and for them, a break-up is usually harsh enough to topple their worlds – at least for a while. It's difficult for the obsessive Scorpio women to take/accept defeat – thus, they never really recuperate from their heart-break. Even when they move on, a reticent pain would keep them glued some way or the other to their past, because of which it is difficult for them to find love again. Their intensity in love also makes them vindictive – hurting or betraying a Scorpio woman comes at a high price – they never really forgive or forget. They will sting you when you least expect it.
Their freedom loving nature and understanding of philosophy and life's deeper meanings often aid the competent Sagittarius women deal better than most others - with a break-up and a heart-break. In fact, most Archer women believe that there's much to be learned from a failed relationship. They will let go of the past, even if deep down they may still crave for their soul-mate – if that person even came close to being one. Sagittarius women are quite accepting of changes, and thus are on the look-out for a new relationship. So, when one ends, obviously they have (however harsh it may sound) at least one reason to smile.
Forget about getting over one, it's even difficult for the super-selective and careful Capricorn to admit that a heart-break actually happened to them! These Earthy women will find it difficult to tell themselves or their closed ones that they are in pain – over a relationship that was not meant to be. So, post a break-up, most of the Cappy women will go on and about, immersing themselves deeper in their work, careers – whatever works – even a rebound relationship. The pain may haunt them for a long time, maybe subconsciously, but to most others they will appear to have moved on.
The modern and analytical Aquarius women tend to approach matters of heart rather methodically. Although they won't mourn the break for long, the Aqua women will not accept the break-up easily, and would do their best to dig up the dirt – to find what went wrong, how and why. The initial period, thus, would, most likely be spent in finding answers and clues – rather than sobbing and crying. Once they figure out the real reason (and, if that's anything, but betrayal), they will not take long to close the chapter – amicably. They believe more in the friendship than the love that was there. This is a Zodiac Sign that always looks forward!
Emotional and sensitive Pisces women naturally find heart-break devastating and painful. They may take huge amounts of time getting out of messed up situations, and may add to the complexities by calling up ex-es, begging for return and writing letters declaring apologies and undying love – all very film-style. For starters, they will cling to their love and love story for dear life – and once that fails, and they let go of the relationship, the crush, the love – whatever it was – they would cry, sob, wail, spend sleepless nights, sing sad songs, may even try indulgences like alcohol – to get over. Surprisingly, the Pisces women do get over, and move on soon. And, once they do – they are quick to look for greener pastures. In fact, most Pisces have intense rebound relationships.